An explanation of the (new) title

Most often, pain comes from change. Change however, in the long run, is beneficial. After all, healthy people grow and growing people change. I would say that change is the grace of God working in us. Therefore, since pain is a temporary price of change, I would even suggest that pain is the temporary affect of the change evoked in us by the grace and plans of God. Simply, it is my opinion that pain is grace. Yet, while experiencing pain, I am unable to see it as such. I view pain as a struggle: something to overcome. But, change hurts. Change takes time. God's plans take time.